We consistently underestimate it. Undersell it. Undervalue it. Under use it.
Yet touch has the power to instantly calm, reassure, transfer courage, and stabilize a situation beginning to spin out of control.
To the degree that we choose to employ it in our family relationships, we will push back the threatening shadows of anger, bitterness, loneliness, and insecurity.
Whether a person is struggling mentally, emotionally, spiritually, or physically, a tender touch has the capacity to bring calmness and healing. But touch is also very important to communicate concern, love, and value during the quieter seasons of life. Medical studies show that men who meaningfully hug and touch others are actually more healthy and live longer than those who do not!
Everyone needs to be touched. We believe God not only ordained and mandated it, He modeled it in Christ. Husbands and wives need to decide they will regularly hold, touch, and caress each other.
By... Gary (& Norma) Smalley
Editor, Smalley Relationship Center
